Here in the Brazed Plate Heat Exchangers-FHC014B hemisphere, we've passed the autumnal equinox; the days are shorter than the nights, and getting ever more so, till the solstice in December. It's also the greatest risk.
Now, I'm not suggesting that you tell everyone all your personal history, let your emotions run rampant, or wear shorts and a t-shirt to formal events!
Aggressive individualism may (or may not) have a place in your life, but it's certainly not the same as your inner light. Light-related cliches and sayings abound: she lights up the party with her smile; his eyes lit up with excitement; her anger darkened the room. Then, you have to be vulnerable to the rest of the world, exposing that reality to everyone you meet..
A city that is set on a hill cannot be hid. And interestingly enough it also means accepting the light of others, even when you may not agree with them or even like them. First, you have to be vulnerable to yourself: you have to learn and it is a learning process, sometimes painfully so who you really are and what you really want.